Sometimes, you're feeling masculine, and someone's acting disrespectfully. Take, for example, the history teacher's trying to teach us about WW1, and some kid's disturbing the class while everyone's trying to learn and get a good grade.

Now, when you're a kid, you're automatically a piece of shit. You're a piece of shit! And that's ok. Because you're a kid.

The trick is to make it known and clear to everybody- especially the person who's being disrespectful- that you're genuinely willing to be friends with them. True socialites are few in number- they must hae high self-esteem. At the beginning of your calling them out, make it clear that you're unafraid to take serious action to stop the behaviour. Be subtle, such that the onlookers will guesses amongst themselves afterwards, but your target is absolutely certain of what you mean. hen try to find the part of them who will agree to submit to your will, which is that you get what you want, which is what everybody wants.

Class clowns are like cancers in the body. The people who want them to behave like that are few in number, and they disturb the operation and peace of the whole.

The real leader is fearsomely cooperative, their ability his fearlessness.

TBC